Getting her attention
If you are ready for a serious relationship, and feel you may have met the ideal person, getting her attention is something you may still need to work on. Only by talking to her and building up communication, will you get a sense of what characteristics she may be looking for in a man. Even then you may be unsure if you measure up.
Many men believe that you they need to keep buying gifts to impress a woman, or that men need to be tall, good looking, and making a lot of money to really attract a gorgeous woman. But that doesn’t ring true all the time, as most women look for emotional attachments that cut deeper than just the surface.
How to get and keep her attracted to you
In order to attract any girl you need to build up an emotional connection so that you begin to feel close to each other, as the relationship moves along.
Here are some character traits that most women look for in a man:
- Good communication and an uncomplicated exchange of ideas needs and desires while getting to know each other. Sharing will help to get her interested in you and wanting to know what makes you tick.
- Women like men who are good listeners, and although studies have shown that women talk 3 times as much as men do, it doesn’t mean you cannot also share – when you can get a word in of course!
- Men who have manners are high on a woman’s list of requirements. Things that are important include pulling out a chair for her in a restaurant, opening a car door, and always being polite.
- Encourage her to talk about her goals and ambitions, as well as any fears or worries. Discuss some of you own, so that without being unmanly, the soft side of your nature is also apparent. This is a quality which will really attract a girl to you.
- Women are attracted to a man who is witty and has a sense of humour, loves to have fun, and is full of life and vitality. However, bear in mind that many women are not attracted by crass and vulgar humour – if this is your girl keep it clean when she is around.
- Self-confidence is an irresistible characteristic which will get any girl attracted to you. Research has shown that women prefer men who have leadership qualities, but who are not bossy or domineering. A man with confident body language will get her wanting to know you better.
- Not all women want to have or raise children, but if she does, it will be probably be communicated in general conversation. If this is what you have in mind for your future as well, let her know that you are a family oriented man.
- Physical attributes are also important, so if you are unhappy with your physical condition, get busy and do something about it. Few women will be attracted to a man who does seem to care how he looks, especially if the relationship seems like it will go to the next level.
- It is part of being human to want to feel sexy, but to fascinate someone else, you need to ooze confidence and self-esteem. Nerves and doubt will get you nowhere.
Even if you feel that you may not be the sexiest man on the planet, remember that beauty is often in the eye of the beholder, but if you are embellished with some of the favoured character traits, it may well tilt the scales in your favour.
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